MY new nick name... Ffk king.... frm a fren's sms.....

2day i experienced d joy of God.... realy amazing!!! 

somehw keep on log in restaurant city but tak jadi!!! 

duno y?

hope.... hope....& hope................

very busy nowadays til no time to online!!

BGR

hr's wat i heard frm Ps Kong Hee bout BGR....

B4 start........ Let me intro this " Love Bank"

Love Banks (every single person has tis)

*use "love units"

if a person u feel is good.. then add points into d Love Bank.... But if u dislike someone, it minus d love units in d Bank.

Love Unit Love Unit

uncomfortable -1 Comfortable +1

bad    -2 Good +2

very bad -3 Very Good +3

Ext bad    -4 Ext Good   +4

D person has d highest love units in ur Love Bank would most probably be ur spouse...

So..............

5 Woman's needs

1. Affections (i love u) ....1 Corin 7:3

a. security

b. protection

c. comfort

d. approval

   -song of solomon 4:1-9 -------------1. learn to hold hands

   2. learn to hug

   3. learn to praise

2. Conversation-- man should spend 15 hours a week for this

- share upon d common interest (things tat both like)

-philippian 2:4

3. Honesty & Openess

-share anything in ur mind(wil grow apart i dont do so) 

-for burden(dont take it alone)... coz God design man & woman take burden 2gether

4. Financial support - 1 timothy 5:8

-wife expect man earn enug to fulfill her needs

-3 budget for couple : 1.Wat u ned

  2.Wat u wan

  3.Wat u can affort

-man ned make woman feel secure in this area

5. Family commitment needs

5 needs here....

1. lots of time (15 hr a week quality family time)

2.wise disciplines-- ephesians 6:4

- purnishment is for past sins, discipline is for the future

- reward when behave good

3.proper parenting skills (to raise up a kid, is not western nor asian thing, is a kingdom thing)

4.explain rules

5.anger(control)

- when a man avoid responsibility of a father, it would loss girl's heart, loss d units in Love Bank

Now 5 Man's needs

1.Sexual Fulfillment-- 1 Corinthian 7:4-5

- Unless is for God(prayer time eg), then man & woman are allowed to separate for a moment, if not, both ned to fulfill each other emontional needs

  - God allow discrepancy btw man & woman coz He wants Love to be a blessing, enjoyment

2.Recreational Companionship (15 hours a week doing recreational activities 2gether)

-same interest activities (normaly guys prefer outdoor activities)

3.Attrative Spouse-- 1 Samuel 16:6-7

-physical attractiveness of wife/spouse

-5 important thing

1.weight control

2.make up

3.hairstyle

4.clothes

5.cosmetic surgery(based on research... tis also include like when a women's face full of pimples, can jus find ways to make her skin look smoother)

4.Domestic support

-needs peace & quiet at home (no argument if possible)--- Proverbs 17:1, Titus 2:4-5(keep a good house)

-3 steps:

1. make a list of al domestic work

Woman       (hours)             Man

 20 ------>  work  <-----    40

 30    kids 5

 10 PTJ 10

30     huz work 10

90 (not balance- total) 65

2. fair division--divide d list nearly equal or equally... as in man should take more care of kids & do more huz work..... woman should reduce it instead

3. increase Love Bank (do things tat incease emotional needs)

5. Admirarion (Ephesian 5:33-- admires him exceedingly)

- Behind every man, thr's an admirig woman

- Every man needs appreciation

- Man likes woman feels proud to be wit him

*Personally i think tis is quite true bout man... coz im a man...haha... isit true for u al, woman?

As i get a D(3 credit hour) for tax... stil undecisive whether to take sup o not until 2day

 God shown me... i got an A- for thesis(6 credit hour)... it cover bck d loss i incur in tax... praise God!!

at same time tot of joinin af gang for trip to p.pangkor,setiawan,ipoh & penang coz d paid.. 

somehow receive a call frm younger sis, she said ned to b d witness for a case in KT court coming 28th,  she ask me no ned to follow her as elder sis d take leave to teman... she wants me enjoy my trip

actualy i wish to join d trip very very much(temptation)...

Yes d trip would be fun,happie, but if anything happen to my sis, i would regret 4ever...

so hr comes d responsibility of a bro... jus pray tat God wit us & everything goes well...(no mr postpone for d case)

Everything seems like in God's Plan

has been attending city harvest church for stone talk & BGR talk from pastor 'Kong Hi' frm singapore....

learn alot frm him about God....

discover new sight of relationship....

hope it would help built up myself for future as i follow it

tis is my very 1st time get a D in UTAR... last sem somemr...

sup is on 28.. i hav a trip frm 25-29.... so? if don take... i may drop frm 2nd upper to 2nd lower class

i did not feel very sad, but jus feel dissapointed...

going to swim soon!!! thunder & rain stopped d... haha, 1st time swim in scot pine... duno hw to swim duh... jus play around