relationship

This morn while in hospital teman dad 4body checkup... i read d book "i kissed dating goodbye"...i jus learned alot frm thr... 

this caught my heart " joy of intimacy is the reward of commitment",  means i realized tat i muz do wats best for others by nvr asking for intimacy if im nt able to meet d commitment level.

Nw i decided no more 'dating' in rest of life... 

D reasons y i stop dating is not tat i donwan get married, or donwan enjoy romance, is because i realized i ned wait on romance until i can match my pursuit of intimacy with my pursuit of commitment... (means don focus on short term desires)

in other word... equation : when "commitment level= intimacy level, thus = can hav romance" then oli a relationship can be long lasting...

i jus wan d best 4both...

nw stil hav alot mr things about truth love haven been discovered yet... nw oli reach chap 3 of "i kissed dating goodbye..." hehehe... mr to go!!! 

so nw i really give a goodbye kissed to dating... c ya..